Posted by: ladyrayne on: July 7, 2009
I watched the Michael Jackson Memorial today on CNN.



What a beautiful tribute to a very talented man. I recorded the show on my vcr (yes I still own one) and my dvr.
I wasn’t brave enough to watch BET’s so called tribute last week but I heard and read that it was a disaster. So glad my eyes didn’t have to suffer through that fiasco.
Today’s memorial was a joy to watch. I enjoyed every performance. Now that was some real talent. I had to grab my box of kleenex and boy did I use it. Many times during the show I cried like a baby. Michael had quite an effect on everyone he met. From Lionel Richie and Berry Gordy to Smokey Robinson and Brooke Shields. Lionel Richie singing Jesus Is Love (haven’t heard that song in years), Jennifer Hudson singing You Will Be There and John Mayer performing Human Nature. I just sat there mesmerized by everyone that stepped on that stage. I lost it too. Listening to Jermaine Jackson singing Smile after Brooke spoke and seeing Michael’s daughter Paris speaking at the end had me in tears.


I can’t remember the last time I cried so much watching something on television.
My prayers go out to the entire Jackson family.


Thank you to Katherine and Joe Jackson for bringing Michael into the world so we could all enjoy his talent. He’s now resting in peace but his music will live on forever.

Family, Fans Remember Michael Jackson in Tearful Memorial Service
By Lisa De Moraes and Ashley Surdin
Washington Post Staff Writers
Tuesday, July 7, 2009 7:14 PMThe world capital of excess said goodbye to the King of Pop in a public memorial service choked with celebrities and tear-welling moments that was broadcast live from the Staples Center in downtown Los Angeles and streamed around the globe.
Hollywood stars joined family, friends and fans from across the nation in bidding farewell to Jackson that featured emotional tributes to the man they hailed as the world’s greatest entertainer.
The star-studded extravaganza at the Staples Center followed a private funeral service attended by Jackson’s family and friends at a Hollywood Hills cemetery this morning.
Pastor Lucious W. Smith of the Friendship Baptist Church in Pasadena gave the invocation, followed by Mariah Carey singing the opening number with a sweet rendition of the Jackson 5 ballad “I’ll Be There,” in a duet with Trey Lorenz.
Among those who feted Jackson were Motown founder Berry Gordy, the Rev. Al Sharpton and NBA greats Magic Johnson and Kobe Bryant. The memorial opened with Motown great Smokey Robinson stumbling through letters of condolence from singing legend Diana Ross and former South African leader Nelson Mandela.
Then, as a gospel choir began to sing and the golden casket containing Jackson’s body was brought into the arena and about 18,000 stood up and were silent No more crying, we are going to see the king A concert worker’s eyes filled with tears. “Oh my God, it’s him!” said a woman in the audience.
“We Love You, Michael!” another woman called out, to cheers and applause.
The Carey/Lorenz performance was followed by Stevie Wonder, who performed “I Never Dreamed You’d Leave in Summer.” “This is a moment that I wished I did not live to see come,” Wonder said.
Other musicians who participated included Lionel Richie, performed “Jesus Is Love,” a pregnant Jennifer Hudson singing “Will You Be There,” and Usher, who sang “Gone Too Soon” as he walked over to rest his hand on Jackson’s casket.
“He did have two personalities,” Gordy told the assemblage.
“Offstage, he was shy, soft-spoken and childlike,” Gordy continued. “But when he took the stage in front of his screaming fans, he turned into another person — a master, a take-no-prisoners showman. It was like kill or be killed. . . . King of Pop is not big enough for him; I think he is simply the greatest entertainer that ever lived.”
“I never thought I’d live to see him be gone,” said Robinson, returning to the stage to tell about how Jackson outsang him on his own tune “Who’s Lovin’ You.” After that, 12-year-old Shaheen Jafargholi — who finished seventh this past season on “Britain’s Got Talent” and sang “Who’s Lovin’ You” in the competition — came out to sing that tune. Jackson had invited Jafargholi to perform in his upcoming London concert series.
Check out the entire article about the memorial at the Washington Post.
Posted by: ladyrayne on: July 6, 2009
Washington Post columnist Avis Thomas-Lester reminisces about her childhood love for the late Michael Jackson. Reading this article brings back some serious memories for those of us who remember when the Jackson 5 were dominating the music charts.

Growing Up Under a Lover’s Spell
By Avis Thomas-Lester
Washington Post Staff Writer
Monday, July 6, 2009If Michael Jackson had married me, none of this would have happened.
That was the plan, from way back in elementary school. I was going to graduate, become a world-famous model and actress, and marry Michael Jackson.
There were several scenarios as to how this would happen, most of them dreamed up as I lay on my pink bedspread with yellow, green and blue butterflies in Indianapolis, about 150 miles from his home town of Gary.
Like thousands of other girls, I fell in love with Michael listening to Jackson 5 45s and LPs, long before videos, CDs and DVDs. For women of my generation, loving Michael Jackson was a rite of passage. We first saw him on “The Ed Sullivan Show” or “American Bandstand” or on the pages of teen magazines like Right On! and 16. We fell in love with Michael before he became the world’s “Thriller,” when he was still chocolate brown and had a wide nose and a big Afro and belted out love songs in a voice that hadn’t yet changed.
We didn’t have videos, but we saw him every night in our dreams, where he sang to us the way a man sings to a woman he loves deep down in his soul.
I remember Right On! and 16 magazines
Check out the Post to read the entire article.
Posted by: ladyrayne on: July 6, 2009
Check out this video by the Fine Young Cannibals. Suspicious Minds is from their debut album Fine Young Cannibals. The lead singer for the Fine Young Cannibals was singer turned actor Roland Gift.

The album was originally released in 1985 where it peaked at number 11 in Great Britain and number 49 in the United States. The Fine Young Cannibals were part of what I call the second British Invasion that occurred during the 1980’s. I fell in love with their music while watching their videos back in the day.
Posted by: ladyrayne on: July 6, 2009
Talk about some serious hate and proud of it. Fox Sports columnist Jason Whitlock is doing some serious hating on Wimbledon Womens Champion Serena Williams.

In Jason’s eyes Serena is too much of an underachiever and just plain fat. Yes Jason “I can eat multiple happy meals in one sitting” Whitlock is calling Serena fat. Go figure. 
Serena could be the best ever, but …
by Jason Whitlock
In addition to talking about Roger Federer and his record-breaking 15th Grand Slam title, we should also be celebrating Serena Williams and her assault on Margaret Court’s record.
The problem is, even after knocking off her sister in Saturday’s Wimbledon singles final, Serena isn’t anywhere close to Court’s 24 Grand Slam singles titles.
At age 27 — the same age as Federer — Serena owns just half as many major titles (11) as Steffi Graf, the greatest women’s player of all time. That’s a terrible shame.
With a reduction in glut, a little less butt and a smidgen more guts, Serena Williams would easily be as big as Michael Jackson, dwarf Tiger Woods and take a run at Rosa Parks.
You can call me unfair. You can even scream that I’m sexist.
But there’s an inescapable truth about Serena Williams: She’s an underachiever.
And all the people making excuses for Serena and rationalizing her failure to totally dominate women’s tennis are the very people uninterested in seeing women rise to a level of equality with men.
Serena Williams has all the ingredients to be Michael Jordan, Jim Brown and Muhammad Ali rolled into one made-for-TV package. She is quite possibly the most gifted female athlete in our lifetime.
Unfortunately for us, she lacks the courage to fulfill her destiny.
She’d rather eat, half-ass her way through non-major tournaments and complain she’s not getting the respect her 11-major-championships résumé demands.
She complains about being ranked No. 2 in the world when she’s not bitching on Twitter or her blog about new rules that forbid Wimbledon players from eating in the locker room.
Seriously, how else can Serena fill out her size 16 shorts without grazing at her stall between matches?
He uses the excuse that he’s a sports writer for his fatness but says that Serena is just lazy and refuses to commit to a training regimen.
Think about it. At 5-foot-9, 145 pounds, Serena would be unstoppable on the court, on the cover of every magazine still in circulation and downloaded on the Internet three times more often than Anna Kournikova.
Instead, Serena is arguably pushing 175 pounds, content playing hard only in the major tournaments, happy to be photographed on dates with pro athletes and proud to serve as a role model for women with oversized back packs.
So Serena should be like Anna Kournikova. Miss Tennis Celebrity, who was an internet sensation and appeared in numerous mens magazines, yet never won a Singles Grand Slam title. But Serena’s fat and underachieving attitude has caused her to only win eleven Singles Grand Slam titles. To Jason and men like him it’s all about looks.
Serena may not be perfect. And no, she’s not in the same league as Steffi Graff. But that doesn’t make her an underchiever. Serena, like her big sis Venus, has a life outside playing tennis. She won’t be playing tennis forever. Serena has a backup plan and that’s a good thing.
And big booty sistas? Don’t bother writing this fool cause he’ll just delete your email.
You can read the entire article here at Fox Sports.
Posted by: ladyrayne on: July 5, 2009
I read an interesting article this morning in the WaPo about Korean Americans who run cram schools in Northern Virginia and Maryland.

Cram schools are more prevalent overseas especially in East Asia where students have intense training after their regular school hours in subjects such as math, english and science. These schools also prepare students for high school and college entrance exams. The Post article talks about cram schools in Northern Virginia which aren’t as intense as those in East Asia.

Preparing for More Than a Quiz
Korean-Inspired ‘Cram Schools’ Still Pile On Tests But Also Help Young Students Navigate U.S. LifestyleBy Michael Alison Chandler
Washington Post Staff Writer
Sunday, July 5, 2009When Aran Park directed a tutoring center in South Korea, her workday ended at 3 a.m. That’s when her last class let out. “We have a saying in Korea: If you sleep three hours, you succeed; if you sleep four hours, you fail,” she said.
Park opened another tutoring center in the corner of a Centreville office building last year. At the Living Stone Academy, she runs a strict program with daily quizzes and lots of homework, but on a distinctly American schedule that ends by 4 p.m. “It is summer vacation,” she said, laughing. “I don’t want to take away all the fun they deserve.”
Many Koreans who move to the United States are relieved to be rid of the expensive and energy-sapping cram schools where, driven by intense competition to get into top universities, students spend most of their waking hours after the school day ends.
But a new and gentler version of cram school is emerging in the United States. Over the past 15 years, scores of Korean-run academies have opened in strip malls and office buildings in such immigrant enclaves as Ellicott City and Annandale. Names such as Elite Academy and Einstein Academy reflect the educational goals that brought families halfway around the world.
This summer, thousands of Korean American students, along with an increasing number of non-Koreans, will attend them to prepare for next year’s math classes, SAT tests or the entrance exam for Thomas Jefferson High School for Science and Technology.
The schools are designed to give students a competitive edge, but many offer far more than academic support. They help newcomers adjust to a new culture, new expectations and a dramatically different public school system. For some families, they are a lifeline between the old world and the new.
The article also mentions that some parents don’t find American cram schools rigorous enough so one parent is sending her son to a cram school in Korea.
For some parents, the American-style cram schools are not rigorous enough. Several of Shim’s students are returning to Korea this summer for more-intense programs, he said.
One of those students is Fred Jin, 16, a rising sophomore at Paul VI Catholic High School in Fairfax City. He will spend four weeks at a kind of academic boot camp near Seoul, where study sessions begin at 7:30 a.m. and end at 11:30 p.m.
“Most important thing,” said his mother, Youna Jin, with one finger raised in the air. “No computer.” That means no cellphone, no Facebook, no MP3s.
I don’t have a problem with kids attending these schools during their after school hours and during the summer. But having your child in school from 7:30am to 11:30pm for four weeks is a bit much. That’s longer than adult work hours. Do these kids get any time to spend outdoors for recreational activities during those hours? Maybe it’s the American in me, but young folks need some outdoor time especially when you’re getting over 15 hours of intense educational training. Check out the entire article at the Post.
After reading this article I thought about how this could benefit black folks and whether there are any black families enrolling their children in these type of schools. I did a google and read an article about a black woman who enrolled her sons in a Korean run cram school in New York City. The article was written in 2003 by St. Petersburg Times correspondent Bill Maxwell so I really don’t know how the school has benefited her sons in the long run.
Black families open up, cram education in
By Bill Maxwell
Times Staff Writer
Published October 22, 2003NEW YORK – Each time I visit my relatives in Harlem, I always inquire about the children, especially the boys.
Harlem, like most other black enclaves elsewhere, destroys too many African-American boys long before they become teenagers, which encouraged me to visit a cousin, Shirley Harrell, a single, divorced mom with two boys – one in third grade, the other in seventh grade. I have always liked her kids because they are polite and easygoing. Shirley, 38, is a full-time department store cashier and a part-time business major at City College.
She clearly understands the vital role that education plays in the lives of her children. The boys love school, and their teachers say they are exemplary students.
Shirley wants the very best for her sons: “Yeah, they do the stuff other boys do – listen to music, play basketball, hang out on 125th Street. But they like doing school work, too. They like to study. I’m trying to get ahead, but it’s been hard. I didn’t have anybody to tell me how to get ahead. I had to learn on my own. It won’t be that way for my children. I’m doing all I can to give my kids a head start. I’m teaching them how.”
For the second year, Shirley’s sons are attending a Korean cram school in Queens. Each afternoon, she and the boys ride the subway to a storefront. There, the boys, along with 45 other students, study for three hours with certified math, English and science teachers. On Saturday mornings, they make the trip again. The boys study for four more hours.
One tangible payoff is the improvement of the boys’ grades. They went from earning C’s and the occasional B to making all A’s and B’s. The grades are important, but Shirley says she cares more about the boys’ new love of learning: “Up here in Harlem, they don’t have a lot of role models their own age. A lot of these kids don’t open a book after they get off the subway. My kids just don’t fit in because they love to study. That makes me feel bad.
“The cram school is different. Those Korean kids study very hard. My boys are the only blacks in the school, but they fit in. I mean, it’s normal to work hard. Nobody says they’re acting white. When they see all these other kids studying, my kids don’t feel weird. The peer pressure is positive. Studying has become a habit – second nature.”
Shirley is one of a growing number of African-American parents in Harlem to discover the benefits of the cram schools, long an integral part of Far Eastern education.
One of the things Shirley Harrell mentions is that while her sons still enjoy listening to music, playing basketball and hanging out, they enjoyed doing their school work too. Alot of times these kids (at least in Maryland and D.C.) don’t touch a book after they leave the school grounds. Instead of hanging out at the mall and the streets they could be spending some of their after school time at cram schools or similar school settings. With an increasing number of black and latino students dropping out of school we need more parents like Shirley Harrell. The United States compared to other countries is falling behind when it comes to academics so maybe cram schools are a good idea for all races. I found this interesting:
“A lot of people, even some of our kinfolks, told me I was pushing my kids too hard,” she said. “I told them to get lost. When people don’t understand what you’re doing, you have to shut them out and do what you know is right. My kids don’t complain. They love making good grades. They really want to study hard.”
Her own relatives. You would think your kinfolk would be encouraging but it doesn’t always work out that way so you have to shut them out.
Check out the entire article here at the St. Petersburg Times.
Posted by: ladyrayne on: July 4, 2009
Journalist and CNN commentator Roland Martin will anchor a new Sunday public affairs show aimed at black audiences on TV One. The show debuts in September.

TV One to begin Sunday show aimed at blacks
By DAVID BAUDER
The Associated PressNEW YORK — Roland Martin will anchor a new Sunday public affairs show aimed at a black audience that will debut in September on the TV One network.
The “Washington Watch” program aims to tap into a new interest in politics and government due to the election of President Barack Obama, said Johnathan Rodgers, TV One’s president and CEO. It debuts Sept. 27 at 11 a.m. ET, and the show will be repeated each week at 5 p.m.
Martin, who is also a CNN commentator, will interview newsmakers and members of the Congressional Black Caucus. April Ryan, White House correspondent for the American Urban Radio Networks, and Robert Traynham, Philadelphia Tribune columnist and Comcast host, will be regular panel members. TV One is in about 48 million homes, a little less than half of the nation’s TV homes.
Rodgers said it dawned on him when TV One covered last year’s Democratic convention and saw many Black Caucus members trudge up to the network’s temporary rooftop studio for interviews: these politicians have few outlets to talk about their issues and people have few places to hear them.
“I hope to get smart, intelligent, entertaining conversation,” Rodgers said, “but I put this under the public affairs arena. It doesn’t have to be a ratings success.”
I’ll give this show a look see since I do listen to Roland on the TJMS. It would be nice to see a variety of views on the show and not just folks from the Congressional Black Caucus.
Posted by: ladyrayne on: July 4, 2009
It’s been a cruel couple of weeks when it comes to deaths. The latest news is the murder of former NFL quarterback Steve McNair. Steve’s body was found in a Nashville condo along with the body of an unidentified woman.


Former NFL MVP Steve McNair killed in apparent double homicide
NASHVILLE, Tenn. (AP) — Former NFL quarterback Steve McNair, whose most noted drive was the final one of the 2000 Super Bowl, was found dead with a gunshot wound to the head Saturday afternoon in a downtown condominium. Police said a woman was also shot dead.
McNair was 36 and played 13 seasons before retiring in April 2008. Police spokesman Don Aaron said officials tentatively identified the woman, but did not release her name. He confirmed she wasn’t McNair’s wife, Mechelle.
He said authorities were still investigating the shootings and that no suspects were in custody.
“I don’t have any answers for you now as to what’s happened, who’s responsible,” Aaron said.
“There are persons who were around the complex today, visitors, who have been taken to headquarters for questioning, just to see what they know, what they may have seen,” he said.
Aaron said officers went to the scene after receiving a call about injured persons inside the condo.
“When police officers arrived in response to that call, they found two individuals who had been shot to death inside the residence,” he said.
The condominium is one that McNair was known to frequent, but police spokeswoman Kristin Mumford said she didn’t know if he was the owner.
Even though he was never a Washington Redskin I still followed Steve McNair’s career including rooting for the Tennessee Titans in Super Bowl XXXIV against the St. Louis Rams.
Steve McNair graduated from Alcorn State in 1995 and he was drafted by the Houston Oilers who would later move to Tennessee. They would become the Tennessee Titans. He led the Titans to the Super Bowl in January 2000 where they lost to the St. Louis Rams. In 2006 McNair was traded to the Baltimore Ravens and retired in 2008.
Steve is survived by his wife Mechelle and four sons.
RIP Steve McNair.
Posted by: ladyrayne on: July 4, 2009
After four seasons Prison Break ended it’s run a couple of months ago. But don’t fret Wentworth Miller fans. Mr. Miller will be making a guest appearance on one of my favorite shows, Law & Order: SVU in their season premiere episode on September 23.

Wentworth Miller goes from Prison Break to Law & Order: SVU
by Allison Waldman
More good news out of NBC’s top drama. Wentworth Miller is guesting on Law and Order: SVU, and this time he’s not going to be behind bars. The Prison Break actor will star in the September 23 premiere of Law and Order: SVU, which is kicking off its 11th season on the NBC.
Wentworth Miller’s casting comes on the heels of NBC re-signing of Mariska Hargitay and Christopher Meloni to two-year extensions as the show’s mainstays, Detectives Benson and Stabler, as well as the return of Stephanie March as Alex Cabot and a four-show arc for Christine Lahti. I’d say that the powers-that-be are stacking the deck with prime talent to make sure Law and Order: SVU maintains its top quality status.
Nabbing Wentworth Miller, even in just a guest spot, confirms that fact. Also, since he’s only on a single episode, he’ll have a story to tell and some character development. It’s generally the regulars who are stuck with the procedural aspects of the drama, hence the reason actors like Adam Beach, who was on SVU for short time, was frustrated — although there were other reasons for his exit as well.
Miller’s role in the premiere is Nate Kendal, an New York City cop, who rescues a rape victim. Clearly, whether on Prison Break or Law & Order: SVU, Miller can’t help but play a hero. Unless, of course, he’s not an innocent as he seems to be.
It will be nice to see Wentworth in another role outside of Prison Break. I’m looking forward to watching him on SVU.
Posted by: ladyrayne on: July 4, 2009
Congrats to Serena Williams on winning her third Wimbledon title. She defeated her big sis Venus Williams 7-6 (3), 6-2. This title is Serena’s third Wimbledon title and her eleventh major title overall.


Serena tops Venus in straight sets to capture Wimbledon ladies’ final
WIMBLEDON, England (AP) — Serena Williams kept telling herself she was facing just another foe in the Wimbledon final Saturday, just another woman who hits the ball quite hard, just another player trying to deny her a Grand Slam title.
She wasn’t facing just anyone, of course. She was playing her older sister Venus. And when the latest all-Williams final finished, when Serena wrapped up a 7-6 (3), 6-2 victory for a third Wimbledon championship and 11th major title overall, she jogged to the net with her arm extended for a handshake.
Venus pulled her close for a warm embrace, instead.
“I didn’t think about Venus at all today. I just saw her as an opponent,” said Serena, who also beat her sister in the 2002 and 2003 finals at the All England Club. “At one point, after the first set, I looked on the side of the court at the stats, and it was like ‘Williams,’ ‘Williams.’ I couldn’t figure out which was which.”
Check out the rest of the article at Sports Illustrated.
Despite three major titles since her US Open win, Serena will still remain number 2 behind number one ranked Dinara Safina. Speaking of rankings I was checking out the rankings for tennis players and was disturbed by the lack of American females in the tennis rankings. Serena and Venus are currently ranked second and third respectively. After that the next American female players are ranked 57th and 90th. That’s pathetic. What happened to the American female tennis players? Russia, France and Belarus have a slew of women ranked in the top 100 yet the United States only has four. American men fared better. There are eight American men ranked in the Mens top 100.
Anyway speaking of the Williams sisters a few hours after Serena’s win the sisters won the Womens doubles title against Australia’s Rennae Stubbs and Samantha Stoser 7-6 (7-4), 6-4.

Sisters sweep to doubles crown
The Williams sisters conquered Wimbledon again after they won a battle of power against guile to retain their doubles crown. Venus and Serena triumphed 7-6 (7-4), 6-4 against the Australian pairing of Sam Stosur and Rennae Stubbs in a late, enthralling match on Centre Court.
They had to survive a first set scare as Stosur and Stubbs raced into a 4-2 set lead. Stosur, who was beaten 6-2, 6-2 with previous partner Lisa Raymond by Venus and Serena in last year’s final, was in particularly inspired form early on, helping to break the Serena serve at 2-1.
Congrats to the ladies!!
Posted by: ladyrayne on: July 4, 2009
Happy 4th of July to all. Hope you have a safe and happy holiday.

Check out the History Channel to learn more about the history of Independence Day.